Accountability...get some!

More often than not, when we hear the word 'accountability', we shirk. Some of us are in the state we're in because of the lack of accountability - we're not accountable to anyone; we don't hold ourselves accountable.

What is accountability? According to Webster, it is "an obligation or willingness to accept responsibility". Are you willing to accept responsibility for your thoughts and actions? Or do you make excuses, blame others, put stuff off, only do the minimum, act confused or helpless? OUCH!

This is a place of growth for me, as Holy Spirit has pushed me to get here over a period of time. I also think it's a place of maturity. When we go through life changes like divorce, separation, loss of a loved one, etc., we tend to look at the other person or someone other than self. We don't want to listen, and definitely don't want to take criticism. But it's time to take action, stand up, and be accountable!

Here are some tools to help us grow in our level of accountability:

1. Listen - James 1:19 encourages us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Stop talking so much and take time to listen. Listen with your mind, your heart, and your spirit so that you receive. In your prayer time, take a moment to listen to what God has to say to you. When in communication and conversation with others, don't drown the conversation by talking so much.

2. Ask - Matthew 7:7 says, "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you." Sometimes we don't know unless we ask. Instead of assuming you know the outcome already or how someone else feels, don't be afraid to ask questions.

3. Be assertive - Matthew 5:23-24 encourages us to handle issues. If you have an ought against your brother (or sister), go to them. Handle the offense properly without being offended.

Today, take a moment to think about your level of accountability. I'm sure you're accountable in the workplace. But what about in your home? In your relationships? Do you have an accountability partner? That's another topic within itself. But strongly and prayerfully consider getting one (or two!).

It's a process, but I know it's worth it! Don't you?

Be blessed,
~Tee